Mason started school one month ago. And it’s like we have been taking our sick rotation since. Last night, we hit a new milestone. One I was hoping never to hit, but also one I’m impressed we’ve waited this long on. Our first trip to the ER.
Monday started like any other day. We woke up, played, went car shopping (yep, I got a new to us car yesterday in the midst of all this – more about that later), and everyone was acting normally. Around 3PM, Mason suddenly had a cough and a runny nose. It came on fast and hard, and by bedtime, we noticed he had a fever. All day yesterday he had a temperature, but was acting normally and nothing was really that drastic from his normal self. He clearly had a cough and cold, and we figured the fever was probably his body trying to fight it off. Hot on the heels of the flu, he still knew what being sick was all about, so he was very verbal about the fact that “Me real sick mom” which is possibly the cutest and most heartbreaking thing ever for your toddler to tell you. For most of the day, his fever stayed low, and we made it through the day with just one half dose of Children’s Advil to keep his temp down.
Around 6 (bedtime is usually 7:30 or 8 ) we were getting dinner ready when Mason told us “Being sick is real hard. I’m tired.” So the two of us decided to snuggle in bed for a few minutes to rest. About 2 minutes (maybe less) he was totally out and sleeping soundly. So we left him.

Around 10 he woke up and was BURNING up. We gave him another dose of Advil then took his temperature. 101.8 – and since I was doing underarm temperature I knew it wasn’t super accurate, and he was probably higher. We gave the Advil some time to set in, and when his fever still hadn’t gone down we decided a trip to the ER was in order. 85% of me knew we’d be sent home and told to ride it out, but A was (understandably) nervous, and I figured it would be worth the co-pay for the peace of mind of them saying “yep, he’s fine the fever is just a symptom of something else and you just have to ride it out.”
Mason was such a grown up big boy in the ER. He insisted on sitting in his own chair (but wanted to make sure I made him a nest with his blanket), and told us that he was hungry (not surprising since he slept through dinner). When we went into triage, he continued sitting in his own chair while the nurse (? I think it’s nurse in triage?) checked his blood pressure; then climbed into my lap when she tried checking his oxygen levels. And then? Then it was time for his temperature. I was pretty sure I knew what she was going to ask – and she did. We needed to get a rectal temperature. I pulled down his pants and laid my poor, scared little man across my knees, holding him down while she got his temperature (102). He acted the way any kid (and probably adult) would act and cried and put up as much as a fight as he could. But once it was over, he sat back up on my lap, had a sip of juice and continued chatting with the nurse about how his “tummy is real hurt because he’s sick” and about “Daddy and Audra in the other room.” We were admitted and taken back to see a doctor. Mason was clearly scared, but handled it well and continued thanking people and saying goodbye to them each time I prompted him. Eventually, it was just the two of us waiting and snuggling.

The doctor came in and was fantastic with Mason. He had Mason help with everything he needed to do and giving him time to get used to the idea of having the doctor check him out. He even fond a nickel when he checked in Mason’s ears! The diagnosis was an upper respiratory infection. Not anything we can really do for it but ride it out, and treat the symptoms if possible. While waiting for another dose of Tylenol, we decided to play with my phone and make funny faces (one of his favorite games ever). Who cared that it was now 12:30 and we were sitting in the ER. This guy still made me laugh!

We headed home, Mason had an extra late dinner, and everyone went back to sleep. This morning, little miss Audrey, who slept through the entire trip to the ER woke us all up a mere 6 hours after we got home… so to say we are tired is an understatement. My little dude is still warm (Ok, HOT), but is eating and drinking the way you’d expect a picky 2 year old to eat, and is totally loving snuggles on the couch and the endless stream of Curious George we’re letting him watch. Usually we limit how much TV he can watch, but with the flu and now, we’ve let him watch as much as he wants to keep him happy and quiet while he rests. Today his eyes are pretty glassy, but he told us this morning that he “got better! me no sick anymore.”
