5 Weeks

This week it finally seems as though time has slowed down to a normal pace. The first 4 weeks were an absolute whirlwind, which probably had something to do with the fact that we had a constant stream of visitors. This week, my brother headed home and it’s been back to the old humdrum of regular old life here in our house. Hayden has been spending more and more time awake and seems to smile more and more (though I have still yet to capture one on camera). I’m hoping that I’ll figure out soon enough what I’m supposed to do with her now that she’s awake. It’s hard to remember this stage with Mason and Audrey. I don’t ever remember having them awake but not sitting up or doing something. I’m sure that they both did… but I don’t remember it and now that Hayden’s at this stage I just kinda look at her and wonder what I’m supposed to do with her while she’s awake.

Mason has finally started caring about her. He will hold her hand or rub her head sometimes, but he’s also made his boundaries abundantly clear. If her diaper should so much as brush his arm he is across the room in less than 1 second. He let me know the other day that he doesn’t like her diapers because babies poop in diapers and diapers are gross.

Here’s little miss Hayden and her 5 week pictures!

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She’s One Month!

Hayden is one month today. This past month has flown by. I’m not sure if that’s because we’ve had family and friends in town for all but 6 days, or if it’s because life with three kids is always going to be an insane whirlwind, but regardless the month is over and I’m not sure how it happened. Hayden decided today was the day she would change up everything. I wrote the post about her sleeping 2 days ago. And just like always, as soon as I wrote the post things changed. The past 2 nights, Hayden decided that the hours of 2 to 4 am were party hours. It was far from fun for anyone but Hayden. Yesterday she stuck to her normal daytime schedule… today? She has taken 2 one hour naps. My one month old baby slept less than Audrey, my 2 year old, does on most days. She also stayed awake and alert until about 10pm this evening before finally falling asleep. I’m pretty positive that at this point she has just given up on sleep, and I seriously hope we don’t have a party this evening since I may not survive it if she doesn’t sleep some more.

In other news, it wouldn’t be a month milestone if I didn’t have some pictures for all of you!! Introducing my Lovely Lamb!

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4 Weeks Old

Hayden is 4 weeks old today! I can’t believe that she’s already that old – she turns 1 month on Saturday!! Not much has changed this week other than her sleeping patterns. She usually wakes up around 7:30 or 8 and is up until around 11. She then goes to sleep until about 2 or 3, wakes up for a quick bite to eat and a tiny bit of awake time then goes back to sleep until about 2 seconds after I decide to start making dinner (somewhere around 5 or 5:30). At that point, she wakes up and is up until around 7 or 8 when she goes to sleep for the night. She sleeps until I wake her up changing her diaper when I’m ready to go to bed. She has a quick bite to eat, then goes right back to sleep and sleeps until around 4am – wakes up for another snack and diaper change and then is back down until she gets up for the day.

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Uncle Paul at the Fountains!

Uncle Paul got here to visit today and boy oh boy are the big kids excited. Hayden is obviously excited too since she spent a solid 3.5 hours awake this evening while I was trying to work and get to this post!!! Today we headed off to a local park that has water fountains to play in. We’ve been to similar places before, but hadn’t actually been to these fountains. They were perfect for the kids, and Mason and Audrey (and maybe Uncle Paul too) had A BLAST playing in them.

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“I’m not sitting on the fountain. There’s no water here.”

IMG_0754Mason surprises me so often lately. One second he looks so grown up and big… and the next second so… NOT.

IMG_0688IMG_0708After some fun in the fountains, A and Uncle Paul took the big kids out on a paddle boat while Hayden and I sat in the shade relaxing (which was also what she did during the fountain play – exciting life that one).

IMG_0716 IMG_0722Overall a super fun day – made even better by the fact that Uncle Paul got to see a wild alligator from the paddle boat, nobody got so much as a skinned knee (though Audrey did point out her old, scabbed up skinned knee and told Paul she had just done it), and everyone had some fun. Until next time… KEEP SMILING!

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3 Weeks with 3

Half of me is astounded that it’s already been 3 weeks since Hayden was born. The other half is wondering how it’s only been 3 weeks since it seems like an eternity ago that I was in the hospital. Regardless, 3 weeks it has been.

Hayden is a great baby. She is starting to wake up more lately – in fact today she celebrated her 3 week birthday by having 3 wakeful periods as opposed to her normal 2. Each of her wakeful periods lasts about 2-3 hours and the rest of the day she usually spends eating, sleeping, pooping, or some combination of the 3. She is nursing like a champ, which almost makes me wish we had to go in for a one month appointment – she got cleared to wait until 2 months at her last appointment (1.5 weeks old) since she was already over her birth weight and had gained a pound in 1 week. She sleeps pretty well, but I write that on the heels of a rough night last night, and an extremely long bedtime tonight so we will see if things change. Up until last night, she had been waking up around 8 for a wakeful time, going back down around 10-11 and sleeping until 3-4 when she would wake up for a diaper change and some boobie and would then sleep until 7-8. Last night however, she thought 2-4 would be a great time to chat it up with me and show me how gorgeous her big brown eyes are.

Pictures of Hayden are too funny. Each one I take I have people telling me she looks just like me, and then the next second someone is saying she looks like A. ON THE SAME PICTURE. A and I go back and forth on which of her siblings she resembles more. Mainly, she’s just Hayden. She’s got parts of Mason and parts of Audrey, but she is all Hayden. She has at least one dimple (possibly the only thing so far we know she got from me), and is the darkest of all 3 babies. Her eyes are a deep brown – very similar to Audrey’s and her hair is a VERY dark brown – very similar to Mason’s. She makes a lot of faces that remind me of Mason, but I usually think she looks more like Audrey did when she was a newborn. I’m so excited to see what she looks like as she grows.

IMG_0602IMG_0618Audrey is quite the little helper. She likes to make sure the baby doesn’t get left behind, and is quick to rock Hayden’s sleeper/car seat/bouncy chair if there are unhappy noises coming from them. She’s also been great about “sharing” my boobs… although she has also turned into quite the nurser again. While I was pregnant, we were down to one (if any) nursing sessions a day. I now have to cut her off at 5…. and each of those 5 sessions would go on indefinitely but I usually cut her off around the 15-20 minute mark. Much of the rest of the day is spent with Audrey begging for “moo moo” (which is what she now calls it), pulling at my shirt, or screaming and tantruming at my feet when I tell her “not right now.” Being two and being denied constant access to Mommy Milk is apparently the most cruel and unusual punishment a mother could ever exact on her child, just ask Audrey… or better yet, don’t ask her, because that will remind her.

Mason is still mainly indifferent to Hayden. He has started to care a little about her, and while Audrey rocks Hayden he usually scurries off to find “that plastic thing” most of us call a pacifier and then tries to jam it into Hayden’s mouth. He also thinks it’s ridiculously funny when Hayden goes cross eyed and watching her do so results in some SERIOUS belly laughs. I got the chance to go in to Mason’s school today with a “Muffins for Mom” breakfast in honor of Mother’s Day. A few of the other moms were rather shocked to notice my big huge pregnant belly was gone and Mason was happy to inform them that we have a baby and her name is Hayden and she’s not a boy. Mason REALLY wanted a baby brother, and has asked more than once why Hayden didn’t come out as a boy. He also asked me if he would need to be careful of my belly again next time when there’s a baby brother in it. I haven’t figured out a good way to explain to him that Hayden is the last baby and there is no baby brother coming.

Mason continues to crack us up. Today at school, the parents got to play a game where we had to identify which of the surveys about Mom was from our child. I was a little anxious since all the other moms knew RIGHT AWAY which one was their child as it was being read… I didn’t want to be the one mom that had no clue. Thankfully, Mason gave answers I knew right away had to be his and I’m not sure I have ever laughed so hard as when I read them all to A once we got home.

Just so everyone is aware, I don’t take my kid to Pizza Hut as often as this interview would make it seem. Pizza Hut is right next door to school and Mason asks just about everyday if we can go for lunch. I oblige about once a month. I also don’t particularly care for “I like to move it, move it” but Mason absolutely adores the song and I do enjoy when he sings it for us… so I guess it IS my favorite music in a way.

Mason is becoming quite the little religious dude. He loves going to Children’s Church and Sunday School each Sunday, and will often ask the most mind blowing theological questions ever. Most recently, he’s been asking me “why are Jesus and God the same person?” I’m planning on passing that one off on our pastor this Sunday (so Will and Todd – if either of you are reading this, be prepared!) Mason frequently surprises me with comments about God or Jesus that really just make me feel like I (or his Sunday School teachers) are doing something right. The other day, I was bribing Mason and Audrey with lolipops. Mason ONLY likes red lolipops and unfortunately we were all out of them. I handed him a “mystery flavor” dum dum and wouldn’t you know it happened to be red. Mason’s response was “hey look mom! I got red even though we were out. Jesus must have been looking out for me and used his magic to make my lolipop red because he knows I like them.”

I am healing from surgery very well. It’s been well over a week since I took any type of medication, and I’m mostly back to myself – though still a little slower walking and I’m often more tired than I once was (of course, that could be due to having 3 small children). Today and yesterday were my first days having 3 kids on my own while A worked and so far all 4 of us have survived. Yesterday I even made it through Walmart with all 3 and only $3 worth of bribes (2 lolipops and 2 spiral notebooks) for the big kids to sit quietly and listen to me. I do feel like there is exponentially less time for me to do things I enjoy, and I’m fairly certain I will never shower before 4 on days A works (he gets home at 4) again. I’m still wearing maternity jeans since they are the only things that fit. My stomach isn’t back to normal, but could probably fit into my pre-Hayden jeans if it weren’t for my thighs and butt being approximately 7 times the size they once were. So far, I’ve refused to go out and buy new jeans, but I’m starting to think I may need to since I feel a little silly wearing full belly panel jeans at 3 weeks postpartum.

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That Time I Did the Impossible

This morning, I woke up and thought “I’m going to try.” I dressed the kids in their sibling shirts and started mentally preparing myself for failure. Photographing toddlers is not easy. Photographing 2 toddlers is really hard. Photographing 2 toddlers and a newborn… I was pretty darn sure it would be impossible.

We spent most of the day being far to busy for me to even try taking any pictures, and then tonight just before bedtime I realized that I needed to do this or it wasn’t going to happen because it was almost bedtime and now their clothes would be dirty and it was time to take some pictures or give up entirely on the idea until the next time I worked up my nerve.

I corralled the children and my husband and took a bunch of pictures in about 2.5 minutes. I ended up with a few that I like, so I count the event as a complete and total SUCCESS.

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2 Weeks Old!

Hayden is ALREADY 2 weeks old and I am astounded.

The big kids are adjusting pretty well. Mason is still pretty unimpressed, he has still yet to actually touch Hayden and mostly just ignores the fact that she even exists apart from a few “Mom, baby Hayden wants boobie I think.” Audrey is either growing, having a hard time with Hayden being around, or getting sick – which one has yet to be determined. She wants to nurse constantly and throws MAJOR tantrums if I don’t let her. When I say constantly… I mean CONSTANTLY. The entire day is a battle of her being latched, me denying or pulling her off, her throwing a huge tantrum and me or whichever family member is closest trying to distract her. Today, Audrey refused to eat breakfast or lunch and instead spent mealtimes screaming on the floor at my refusal to nurse her at the dining room table.

Hayden is awesome. She usually sleeps most of the night, except for a single wake up around 3 or 4 where we do a quick diaper change, and she grabs a snack. She thinks she’s strong enough to hold her head up and when laying on our chest she can usually lift her head and look around for a few minutes before she gets tired and slowly lays her head back down. Rarely she will do the typical newborn face smash into our chest, but more often than not she controls her head as she brings it back down.

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It’s a Girl!

Well, I’m 10 days late, but I’m happy to introduce all of you to Hayden Rebecca!! Born via c-section (birth story to follow maybe) on April 18, 2013 at 8:35am. She was 7lbs, 14oz and we are both happy and healthy.

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve already seen a billion photos of Hayden, but just in case, here’s a little photo dump.

Something I’m hoping to do this go round is that instead of doing the monthly pictures like I did with Mason and Audrey, I want to really step it up and do weekly photos. This is a huge undertaking, and we know how my other weekly projects have gone, but I’m hopeful about this one because if I’m successful, I also end up with an amazing 1st birthday present for Miss Hayden. The hope is to get a bit of fabric each week, use it as a backdrop, then make a quilt out of all 52 fabrics to give to her as her first birthday present. Wish me luck!! Here’s week 1!

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IMG_0520As you may be able to tell from these pictures, we had a little trouble with jaundice, but it’s almost completely cleared up with no treatment other than lots of nursing and dirty diapers. The pediatrician wasn’t ever worried about it, so we just waited for it to go away on its own, though we did have yellow eyes for a bit. Obviously she’s wearing AppleCheeks in these pictures, and has since about 4 hours (maybe less??) after birth. We are once again loving the fit and functionality, but if that comes as a surprise to any of you, you obviously don’t know us very well yet ;)

The big kids are adapting well to their little sister. Mason took a long time to show any interest in her, refusing to even so much as look at her in the hospital. He has yet to hold her, but today he spent a few minutes rocking her carseat as we got everyone ready and packed up for church. Audrey adores her sister. Her favorite thing to do is tandem nurse, and when we do that Audrey frequently rubs Hayden on the head or tries to hold her hand (which is mega distracting for Hayden and her not-so-perfect latch. Audrey likes to know where baby “hay ha” is all the time and has held her a few times.

All in all we are adjusting well, but getting out of the house is now a much crazier event than it has been in the past!! I think it will be awhile before I attempt a solo journey out of the house with all three!

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Feeding the Hungry with Champions For Kids

Mason seems to be starting to come out of the ego-centric toddler stage. He’s still pretty certain that anything he wants he should get, but he’s finally starting to notice that other kids have feelings and their own ideas, and most importantly DIFFERENT STUFF. I’ve been trying to cash in on this newfound awareness by trying to teach him about people that may not be as fortunate as he is. A few times now, we’ve packed up some of his toys and clothes together and donated them while talking about how we are giving them to little boys that don’t have as many toys (or clothes) as Mason does.

I’ve been trying to think of other ways to help him learn about charity and charitable acts, while still keeping things age appropriate. At our church, there is an effort called Little Pantry that I’ve been hoping to get Mason somewhat involved with. Little Pantry is a food bank that collects non-perishable foods, and gives them out to 45 local children that are on the free meal plan at a nearby public school. These are 45 kids that are in situations where their parents struggle to get food into their mouths, and Little Pantry delivers enough food each Friday to get these kids through the weekend and back to school. When the Champions for Kids Campaign (learn more about them on facebook or twitter!) asked me to blog about donating food to a food drive, I knew there was no time like the present to finally get Mason involved with Little Pantry!

I thought it would be fun to take Mason and Audrey shopping for food, but I also wanted to try to get him involved in campaigning for food and donations!! We spent some time drawing a picture of “a little boy that doesn’t have very much food.” I made a copy and added some wording to the two then had flyers printed out of them. One set went to school with Mason, and the other we handed out at church. The church congregation already does a fantastic job of getting donations (both food and monetary) in, but a little reminder and a smile never hurts. I didn’t expect many donations from Mason’s school since he goes to preschool in a church that has its own foodbank (and they often ask the kids/parents to bring in food), but we still ended up getting a few small monetary donations, and every little bit helps!!

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We headed out and went shopping after talking to the leader of Little Pantry. She was so excited to have the chance to give us a shopping list, and stressed the fact that she needed proteins and had always wanted to give popcorn, but that it was too expensive. We had a great time shopping, and then headed off to help pack up the bags! Having heard that Little Pantry always needs proteins, I kind of jumped to the conclusion that they could use some other healthy, nutrient rich foods. I decided to check out all the Nutrition Bars and ended up picking up a bunch of Strawberry Zone bars from Abbott Nutrition. I thought the “frosting” might make them appealing to the kids, but even if they don’t like it, I’m sure the moms and dads in these families could use some healthy snacks too!

Abbott Nutrition Zone Perfect BarsThis is what I was most excited about, and really felt like it would have the biggest impact on Mason. I also didn’t want to turn it into something un-fun though, so when he lost interest in packing up bags I didn’t fight him and let him run off and play with the other kids that had come to “help.” Meanwhile, myself and 2 other moms spent a fun morning chatting and packing up bags and just having a good time in general. We left church happy and proud. Mason was proud of himself for not only feeding hungry kids, but also for collecting about 80 cardboard boxes that he would be taking home to construct a robot out of (is it recycling day yet??). It took us a 15 minute drawing session, and a morning of shopping and packing bags to really make a huge impact on these 45 kids. The $15 I received in donations from Mason’s school provided for 15 cans of Ravioli – which can each feed a child and maybe even give mom or dad a few bites depending on that child’s age. ;) When it comes to food banks it’s amazing how big a difference something so little can make.

Abbott Nutritional challenged us to make a difference and Pack a Sack… we went a little overboard and packed 45, but isn’t going overboard fun when it’s for a fantastic cause?!? Abbott Nutritional is also sponsoring RazorFest, a big fun festival and food drive this Saturday! If you’re in the area (Arkansas), consider going – I know I would!

Want to see more pictures of our experience start to finish?? Check out my Google+ story here!

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DIY Chair Overhaul

We have two toddlers. We also have had white dining room chairs. As I’m sure you can imagine, those puppies haven’t been white in a very long time. Though it’s bothered me for some time now that they are no longer white… and never will be, it wasn’t until I recently got into major nesting mode that I decided to do something about it. I went into this project with ZERO plan. I had read a few DIY re-upholstery blog posts before, but it had been months, and my motivation didn’t extend quite far enough to re-find or read any of them again. But, I figured I had nothing to lose since aesthetically, the chairs were ruined months ago.

I had the idea to re-upholster in vinyl instead of fabric. I figure this way the chairs stand a chance of staying clean since cleaning them just means wiping down instead of trying to get the perfect balance of upholstery cleaner, water, and scrubbing to get the food/stains off without soaking the chair and leaving it wet for 3 days. We were in Walmart one night and I happened to spot some black and white damask vinyl. I did what all good crafters do, and pulled a random number out of my head, purchasing 2 yards. Total cost for the vinyl was $5.97. Y’all?? That’s all I spent on this project, and check out the results:

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I’m almost embarrassed to post that before picture, but it just shows how serious I am when I say our chairs were A MESS. So, how did I do it?? There was zero skill or talent needed. The hardest parts were correctly lining up the fabric and figuring out how to load a staple gun. The rest?? Was easy peasy.

First, you need to remove the chair cushion from the actual chair itself. I flipped the chairs over and quickly found 4 screws that were holding the two pieces together. A Phillip’s Head screw driver and about 40 seconds resulted in two separate pieces:

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Once that was done, I attempted to clean my cushions just so they don’t have anything nasty growing if/when we eventually remove the vinyl. If yours aren’t in as terrible shape as mine were, you can skip the cleaning ;) I then laid the cushion face down on the vinyl and just cut willy nilly around it. I didn’t measure, and all 4 turned out fine with some fabric to spare.

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Now came one of the hardest parts. On the first chair I did, I didn’t even think about this, and thankfully it is ALMOST straight… but off enough that it will bug me and I’ll go back to get more fabric and fix it :( Since I have a patterned fabric, I needed to make sure the pattern was lined up on the chair. This wasn’t easy. I found the most successful method was if I left the chair facedown, pulled the fabric up against the widest edge and used the wood/cork/whatever it is base of the cushion to make sure everything was lined up. Once it was lined up, I just popped a few staples in with a staple gun. When stapling, you’ll want to stay about 2 inches off from the corners so you can easily pull them in later.

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You can see in this picture, I used the bottom of one of the damask patterns to line up against the edge of the cushion base.

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Once that’s done, you’ll want to do the other three sides. Even having already stapled one edge, I found that the fabric would shift a little as I continued around the chair. For that reason, I did the short edge (back of the chair) next and then the two sides – this ended up causing the least amount of shifting and worked pretty well.

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When you do the sides, you’ll want to make sure the corners of the other edges are flipped out so you don’t end up stapling the fabric down to the wrong place. Once you have all 4 sides stapled (remember to stop stapling 1.5-2 inches away from the corner), you’ll want to trim the fabric. The corners are the hardest part as far as stapling and getting your fabric to lay flat, and the more fabric you have, the harder it is.

IMG_6906This is the part I was most nervous about – getting the corners to look decent enough that my mother, wouldn’t cringe when she looked at them. My Mom is (and has raised me to be) pretty obsessive when it comes to gift wrapping. Thankfully the skills I learned wrapping awkwardly shaped Christmas presents came in handy when wrapping chair corners in fabric. I started by pulling the corner of the fabric straight up and stapling it down, leaving me with two smaller corner sections to battle.

IMG_6907I then fanned out these sections and stapled them down as well. Sometimes it only took one “fan out” other times I would do two smaller ones depending on how tight the fabric was in that one space. Each “fan out” I did I used two staples, one on each edge to hold it down. Once you’re finished, you should have a beautiful little corner.

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I noticed that the screw holes on the back corners of the cushion were quite a bit lower into the corner, and I didn’t want to make them impossible to get to by layering over them with 10 folds of fabric, so for the back corners I ended up taking a slightly different approach. This approach probably would’ve worked for the front corners too, but I don’t think it looks as pretty, so I stuck with two different methods based on corner location.

IMG_6911To do the back corners, I started the same basic way, pulling the corner of the fabric in, but when I went to staple everything down, I made one “fan out” and pulled the other edge straight in rather than fanning the fabric. This left me with just one thin layer of vinyl covering the existing screw holes.

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Once I had all four corners done, I’d flip the cushion over and take a peek at my masterpiece.

IMG_6917Once everything is finished, it’s another quick minute or two with the screwdriver to screw the cushion back onto the chair and I was done!!! Start to finish, each chair took me about 15 minutes. Total cost of all 4 dining room chairs: $5.97. These chairs have given our dining room a whole new look and I couldn’t be happier with the project!!!

Have you refinished chairs on your own? Tell me about how you did it!

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